Leaving the United States Transformed My Life Completely

Introduction

I am excited to begin writing for LBS. I have been a fan for years, dating back to the YouTube era, so it feels like a full-circle moment for me.

Leaving the Rat Race

After 14 years in cities like Los Angeles and New York, I decided it was time for a change. I packed up my life, leaving behind the hustle and bustle, and set off on a new journey abroad.

The decision to move wasn't easy. It was a process of reflection and healing, triggered by the loss of my mother. The weight of city life had taken its toll, and I knew I needed a fresh start.

Discovering Puerto Vallarta

Puerto Vallarta, a city I fell in love with on a previous visit, became my new home. The vibrant culture, stunning landscapes, and slower pace of life resonated with me, offering a sense of grounding.

Moving to Mexico was not just a change of scenery; it was a shift in perspective. Living there challenged my American habits and taught me to embrace a more mindful and relationship-driven way of life.

Arriving in Puerto Vallarta, I expected to find good weather and a relaxed lifestyle. What I didn't anticipate was how living there would force me to confront my ingrained American behaviors and attitudes.

In Mexico, I learned to appreciate a slower, more community-oriented approach to life, emphasizing relationships and presence over constant motion and productivity.

A New Chapter

Embracing a new chapter in my life, I transitioned from a traditional job to becoming a full-time content creator and entrepreneur. Through sharing my experiences on social media, I aim to provide a candid look at the realities of relocating abroad.

As a Black gay man living in Mexico, I have found a sense of freedom and acceptance that has allowed me to fully express myself. The vibrant LGBTQ+ scene in Puerto Vallarta has been a transformative experience for me.

What's Next

While Mexico has not solved all my problems, it has given me space to reflect and live more intentionally. I plan to continue traveling and sharing my journey as a Black gay man living abroad. Follow along on social media for more updates and insights!